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February 16, 2005

Half Full or Half Empty?

by @ 11:41 pm. Filed under Epiphanies, Life, Rants. [add to del.icio.us]

You always hear the saying, “The optimist sees the glass as half full, and the pessimist sees the glass as half empty. Which one are you?”

My answer is, “Neither.” Both answers are correct. The glass is half empty and half full. There may even be several other correct answers. If you settle for the first right answer, you’ve seriously short-changed yourself. Always look for the next right answer. Then you have choices. You can pick the one that best suits the circumstances.

To promote the notion that it is best to see the glass as half full is foolish and irresponsible. It leads to the absurd attitude that things are getting better and better. But things are not going to get better unless you have identified the needs and are prepared to address them. The glass is not going to fill itself. Unless you have recognized that the glass is half empty and are prepared to remedy the problem, it will never be filled.

Furthermore, not only may there be more than one right answer, there may be more than one desirable goal. Do you want the glass to be full, or do you want the glass to be empty? Or do you want the glass to be partly full and partly empty? All of these may be desirable objectives for different people or in different circumstances.

And if you’ve been mowing the lawn on a hot day, will you be happier with a full glass of ice cold lemonade, or an empty glass of ice cold lemonade? If you have a full glass, you are still thirsty. If what you desire is relief from your thirst, then what you want is an empty glass. You want that lemonade inside you.

This is a common problem in American culture. People seem to be obsessed with having the full glass. What if we lived our lives in search of the empty glass? Think of the old Zen parable “If you want me to fill your cup, you must first empty it.” Why don’t we drink every glass that comes to us. Drink it to the full. Drain it dry.

How do we approach God. Do we come to Him with our glasses full, our glasses empty?

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A Candle

by @ 11:40 pm. Filed under Quotations. [add to del.icio.us]

A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle.
—unknown

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Convenience or Addiction?

by @ 10:56 pm. Filed under Rants. [add to del.icio.us]

Ever notice what people are buying in convenience stores?

Alcohol, tobacco, lottery tickets, junk food, porn. Today I noticed that they had Porn Cards for sale. They looked like phone cards, but they said Porn Card. I guess you buy it and call the number on the card and listen to porn. At any rate, the convenience stores are in the business of catering to people’s addictions. Alcohol is addictive, toxic, poisonous. Tobacco is addictive, poisonous. Gambling is addictive and destructive to your mind, your body, your whole life. Junk food is addictive and toxic. Porn is addictive and toxic. How are these convenience stores any different from the crack dealer on the corner?

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If You Do Not Love Too Much

by @ 10:53 pm. Filed under Life. [add to del.icio.us]

“If you do not love too much, you do not love enough.”
-Me

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